7 Tips for Breaking Free from Toxic Productivity

Takeaway: Toxic productivity can sneak up on you. What starts as motivation to achieve quickly becomes an obsession with doing more, faster, better. In this post, you'll learn what toxic productivity is, how to recognize it in your own life or workplace, and how to finally step out of the cycle for good.


The Trap of Doing More

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In our work with startup founders and remote teams, we often hear a familiar refrain: “If I’m not being productive, I’m falling behind.” At first glance, it sounds like ambition — but what we’re really seeing is burnout cloaked in hustle. Founders skipping lunch to get through their to do list, employees answering Slack messages at midnight, team leads pushing through exhaustion because rest feels like the worst thing they could do. It’s called toxic productivity, and it’s one of the most pervasive traps in today’s productivity culture.

At Strengths Squared, we work with high-achieving leaders and teams to combat toxic productivity and redefine what it means to achieve success. Our co-founders — Lisa, a licensed therapist with deep expertise in mental health and DBT, and Marisa, a PCC-certified coach with years of experience coaching startup leaders — help teams build sustainable practices that support both work life balance and meaningful impact.

In this guide, we’ll explore what toxic productivity really is, what it looks like in daily life, and how to step out of the cycle without sacrificing results. You’ll learn practical ways to restore your physical and mental health, reclaim personal time, and create a work rhythm that lets you show up focused, productive, and well — not just busy.

What Is Toxic Productivity?

Toxic productivity can be surprisingly hard to recognize — especially in environments that celebrate constant motion. It often hides behind language like “just being efficient,” “crushing it,” or “doing whatever it takes.” But underneath the surface, it’s costing you more than you realize.

Here are some common symptoms and signs of toxic productivity in the workplace and daily life:

  • Feeling guilty during free time — even when you’ve finished your tasks

  • Skipping meals or cutting short sleep to “get more done”

  • Working longer hours without increased results or satisfaction

  • Feeling anxious when not checking email or Slack

  • Having difficulty enjoying quality time with family or friends

  • Neglecting physical health, mental health, or self care routines

  • Believing you have to earn rest or breaks by first being “productive enough”

  • Avoiding delegation because you believe only you can do it “right”

  • Basing your self-esteem entirely on accomplishments or output

  • Constantly adding new items to your to do list even when the current list isn’t done

These habits may seem “normal,” especially in competitive or high-growth environments — but they’re often signals of deeper underlying feelings, like anxiety, fear of inadequacy, or chronic stress. Recognizing these patterns is the first step to combat toxic productivity and shift toward a more sustainable, well being-focused way of working.

Now let’s explore what that healthier version can look like.

What Does Healthy Productivity Look Like?

Healthy productivity isn’t about doing more — it’s about doing what matters most, with clarity and intention, while protecting your physical and mental health. It’s not about being “on” all the time, but about knowing when to push and when to pause. In contrast to the toxic productivity trap, healthy productivity supports your mental wellness, relationships, and energy — not just your output.

Here are some clear signs of sustainable, healthy productivity:

  • Setting clear boundaries around work hours and personal time

  • Taking regular breaks to recharge — not just powering through

  • Prioritizing tasks based on values, not just urgency or external pressure

  • Working refreshed after adequate sleep, healthy meals, and downtime

  • Spending time on relationships, hobbies, and family life

  • Creating realistic goals that support long-term focus, not just short bursts

  • Allowing for imperfection, knowing that not everything needs to be resolved immediately

  • Practicing self care regularly, not just when you crash

  • Separating self-worth from productivity levels, especially during slower seasons

This version of productivity respects your limits, values your time, and leaves space for restoration. It allows you to contribute, create, and maintain momentum — without burning out. Now that we’ve looked at what healthy productivity entails, let’s talk about how to make the shift.

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7 Ways to Break Out of a Toxic Productivity Cycle

Breaking free from toxic productivity doesn’t mean giving up on achievement — it means rewriting the rules you live and work by. Below are seven practical ways to shift out of the productivity trap and toward a healthier, more sustainable rhythm that supports your well being, self worth, and long-term success.


1. Set Clear Boundaries Around Work Hours

  • What it is: Define a clear start and end to your workday — especially if you work remotely.

  • Example: Stop checking emails after 6 p.m. and delete Slack from your phone on weekends.

  • How it helps: Establishing boundaries protects your personal time and helps you restore energy, so you can work refreshed the next day.


2. Build Breaks Into Your Schedule (and Actually Take Them)

  • What it is: Breaks aren’t a luxury — they’re part of your job. Schedule short pauses throughout the day.

  • Example: Use a timer to work for 50 minutes, then take 10 to rest, stretch, or eat a healthy meal.

  • How it helps: Regular breaks improve focus, reduce burnout, and support both mental and physical health.


3. Redefine Success (It's Not Just About Output)

  • What it is: Shift your definition of success from “doing more” to “doing what matters.”

  • Example: Instead of measuring your day by how many tasks you checked off, track how aligned your work was with your values.

  • How it helps: This reframes productivity as meaningful contribution — not a race — and helps overcome toxic productivity rooted in self esteem issues.


4. Challenge Action Bias

  • What it is: Action bias is the urge to “do something” — even when rest or reflection would be more useful.

  • Example: Instead of reflexively starting a new project when you finish one, take a day to reflect or simply enjoy the pause.

  • How it helps: It builds tolerance for stillness and disrupts the constant “what’s next?” cycle that drives unrealistic expectations.


5. Acknowledge the Emotional Roots of Overworking

  • What it is: Toxic productivity often masks underlying feelings like fear, anxiety, or guilt.

  • Example: Notice if you’re working longer hours to avoid feeling guilty for resting — and ask yourself what’s really going on.

  • How it helps: Bringing awareness to emotional drivers gives you more freedom to practice self care instead of overworking to manage discomfort.


6. Practice Self-Compassion and Rest Without Earning It

  • What it is: Give yourself permission to take breaks and spend time doing “nothing” — without having to justify it.

  • Example: Spend Sunday doing things that restore you — reading, walking, enjoying free time — without a productivity goal in mind.

  • How it helps: This restores your mental health and rewires your brain to understand that rest is part of being a productive human, not a reward for being one.


7. Work With a Mental Health Professional or Coach

  • What it is: If you're experiencing toxic productivity and can't break the cycle alone, reach out for support.

  • Example: Meet with a mental health professional or coach to explore realistic expectations, emotional patterns, and new strategies.

  • How it helps: Professional support can help you untangle self worth from output and build a healthier, more human approach to daily life and work.

Final Thoughts on Productivity Culture

Escaping the toxic productivity trap isn’t about doing less — it’s about doing differently. By setting clear boundaries, challenging internalized expectations, and learning to practice self care without guilt, you can begin to restore both your physical and mental health. These strategies aren’t just for individual relief — they also pave the way for healthier teams, stronger relationships, and workplaces where people produce with purpose instead of pressure.

At Strengths Squared, we specialize in helping founders, leaders, and remote teams navigate this shift. Whether you’re battling burnout, seeking better work life balance, or trying to rebuild a sustainable rhythm after years of over-functioning, we’re here to help. Our work blends coaching, therapy-informed practices, and deep knowledge of startup dynamics to support real, lasting change.

If you’re ready to combat toxic productivity and build a culture that values mental wellness, free time, and human sustainability, let’s talk. You don’t have to wait until you’ve hit a breaking point. You just have to be willing to believe that rest, personal time, and well being are not distractions — they’re your greatest tools for meaningful success.

Lisa Birnbaum, LCSW